Concentrate on one area at a time - Whether you're starting from the very beginning with having to determine what style of architecture you want for your home or deciding on a particular element, such as my area of focus, staircase design, concentrate on that one area and work through the possibilities. With staircase design, this might mean first learning about all the different things you'll even need to decide about. What exactly is a newel post or a balustrade? Then you can get a bit more specific - what types of wood stair treads are characteristic for the architectural style we've chosen? Would iron balusters compliment the area of the home the staircase will lead to and from? Although you will be thinking about and focusing on one area in particular, thinking contextually about how this one area fits in with the rest of the home will not only help you to make good decisions, but will also help you uncover other questions to be addressed.

The key though is to note those down and come back to them. Remember, one area at a time to keep from going into overwhelm. Search out pictures of what you like and even what you don't - This is a great way to help your through your decision making process. Head to the library or a bookstore and spend some time going through magazines and books until you find something that you really like. It's again important to keep your focus narrow - look only at staircases and their elements in one sitting - don't let yourself get distracted by chandeliers you like. If you see something you want to come back to, make a note of it so you won't forget. Looking at particular elements in use is another option. Grab your digital camera and go look at buildings that might have iron balusters if you're considering them or the particular type of wood handrails you loved the sample of but would like to see in an actual home setting. Often times, vendors or builders can help you with referrals of where their work or products can be seen. Gather up all of your pictures to not only help you to solidify your vision, but to help to explain what you really want to your architects and home designers - as well as examples of what you absolutely do not want so that they really can get a visual sense of your style.